He carried the pain quietly” â Comedian, AY mourns Alex Ekubo, says the actor hid health struggles
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Comedian Ayo Makun (AY), has shared an emotional tribute following the dath of Nollywood actor Alexx Ekubo, revealing that the actor kept his terminal health struggles hidden even from close friends. In a candid post via his Instagram page on Wednesday, May 13, AY disclosed that Ekubo, who was part of a tight-knit circle with his brother, designer, Yomi Casual and actor , IK Ogbonna, never disclosed the severity of his sickness. AY, who revealed he saw Ekubos body, stated that the actor appeared peaceful in death.”Watching his lifeless body right in front of me, I can honestly say that even in death, he looked peaceful. He looked like someone who had carried pain quietly for too long and finally found rest,” AY wrote. Appealing to Nigerians to be more compassionate, the comedian emphasized that behind the glamorous red carpets, movie premieres, and smiles, many public figures are battling silent, life-threatening crises. He wrote;We lost Alexx Ekubo, a young man, a colleague, a brother, a talent, and someone many people only knew through the smile he gave the world. Watching his lifeless body right in front of me, I can honestly say that even in death, he looked peaceful. He looked like someone who had carried pain quietly for too long and finally found rest. He never shared or disclosed issues concerning his health with any of us. And that is the part that should make all of us pause. Behind the fine pictures, the red carpets, the movie premieres, the jokes, the smiles and the celebrity lifestyle, many public figures are fighting battles nobody can see. Some are battling sickness. Some are battling depression. Some are battling loneliness. Some are battling family issues. Some are battling the pressure of being judged by people who do not know them personally. Alexx reportedly fought stage four liver cancer. Chadwick Boseman gave the world Black Panther while privately battling colon cancer. Sammie Okposo faced public shame and personal battles before his sudden passing. Caroline Flack became a global reminder of how public humiliation and online cruelty can break a human being. The painful truth is this: we do not always know what people are carrying. Someone may be losing weight because of illness, and we call them names. Someone may be quiet because they are depressed, and we say they are proud. Someones marriage may be struggling, and we turn it into social media entertainment. Someone may be trying to hustle just to stay alive, while we use their pain to catch cruise. Science may not say trolling causes cancer, but we know that constant stress, humiliation, depression and emotional pressure can worsen a persons health, break their spirit, run into their shadows and make their private battles even harder to fight. Celebrities are human beings first, just like everyone else who experiences life. Before you blog that unconfirmed story, type that insult, before you mock that weight loss, before you laugh at that failed relationship, before you turn someones pain into content, please remember that your comment may be meeting them at the weakest point of their life.”The post He carried the pain quietly” Comedian, AY mourns Alex Ekubo, says the actor hid health struggles appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.
